Archive for March, 2007

The Perfect Boyfriend

Someone really special just sent this to me and I thought it was really sweet, so I thought I’d share it with everyone.

Every girl dreams that one day she will find a boy that does these things for her. Even the smallest action can have the BIGGEST impact in someone’s life.
give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.
leave her cute text notes.
kiss her in front of your friends.
tell her she looks beautiful.
look into her eyes when you talk to her.
let her mess with your hair.
touch her hair.
just walk around with her.
forgive her for her mistakes.
look at her like she’s the only girl you see.
tickle her even when she says stop.
hold her hand when you’re around your friends.
when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.
let her fall asleep in your arms.
get her mad, then kiss her.
tease her and let her tease you back.
stay up all night with her when she’s sick.
watch her favorite movie with her.
kiss her forehead.
give her the world.
write her letters.
let her wear your clothes.
when she’s sad, hang out with her.
let her know she’s important.
let her take all the photos she wants of you.
kiss her in the pouring rain.
when you fall in love with her, tell her.
and when you tell her, love her like you’ve never loved someone before.Guys to repost as : I’d do this for her.
Girls to repost as : The perfect boyfriend.

If you don’t repost this in four minutes, you will lose the one you love.
If you do repost this in four minutes, the one you love will: message you; call you; kiss you; love you back.


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I found this on Eudora’s blog. I thought it was quite interesting so I decided to put it on my blog too. This is a about stereotyping. Tagging all my friends who think stereotypes are evil!Bold the stereotypes that fit you, post on your blog and pass this on. No one should be judged based on one characteristic alone. No one is ever really a stereotype.


I’m SKINNY, so I MUST be bulimic/anorexic.
This is what everyone says to me (mostly guys), ” Zhang Yang, eat more. You are so skinny.”

I’m EMOTIONAL, so I MUST cut my wrists.

I’m NOT LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, so I must be a loser.
Read my blog URL. It is Princess In The Heart. I once watched a movie which says that every girl is a princess at heart. I strongly believe that.

I’m GAY, so I MUST have AIDS.

I’m a LESBIAN, so I MUST have a sex-tape.

I SPEAK MY MIND, so I MUST be a bitch.

I’m RELIGIOUS, so I MUST shove my beliefs down your throat.

I DON’T HAVE A RELIGION, so I MUST be “evil” and not have any morals.
Don’t preach to me about moral values. Even those religious people do the wrong things sometimes.

I’m REPUBLICAN, so I MUST not care about poor people.

I’m DEMOCRAT, so I MUST not believe in being responsible.

I am LIBERAL, so I MUST be gay.


I’m a GUY, so I MUST only want to get into your pants.

I’m a CHEERLEADER, so I MUST be a whore.

I’m a DANCER, So I must be stupid, stuck up, and a whore.

I wear SKIRTS a lot, so I MUST be a slut.

I’m a PUNK, so I MUST do drugs.

I’m YOUNG, so I MUST be naive.

I’m RICH, so I MUST be a conceited snob.

I wear BLACK so I MUST be a goth.

I’m BLONDE, so I MUST be a stupid idiot.

I’m a WHITE GIRL, so I MUST be a nagging, steal-your-money kind of girlfriend.

I’m NOT A VIRGIN, so I MUST be easy.

I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking whore.

I’m a TEENGAGE DAD, so I must not support my kids.

I’m a TEENAGE MOM, so I MUST be an irresponsible slut.

I GOT A CAR FOR MY BIRTHDAY, so I MUST be a spoiled brat.

I HAVE STRAIGHT A’s, so I MUST have no social life.

I DYE MY HAIR CRAZY COLORS, so I MUST be looking for attention.

I DRESS IN UNUSUAL WAYS, so I MUST be looking for attention.

I’m INTO THEATER & ART, so I MUST be a homosexual.

I’m a VEGETARIAN, so I MUST be a Hippie.

I HAVE A BUNCH OF GUY FRIENDS, so I MUST be fucking them all.
Is there a law saying that guys and girls cannot be pure friends?


I have BIG BOOBS, so I MUST be a whore.
Are you jealous or what?

I WEAR WHAT I WANT, so I MUST be a poser.

I hang out with GAYS, so I must be GAY TOO.

I’m a BLONDE, so I MUST be dumb.

I’m a HIPPIE, so I MUST be a Communist.

I’m a STONER so I MUST be going in the wrong direction.

I’m a VEGETARIAN so I MUST be a crazy activist.

I’m a VIRGIN so I MUST be a prude.

I’m STRAIGHT EDGE so I must be violent.

I’m a FEMALE GAMER, so I MUST be ugly or crazy.

I’m BLACK so I MUST love fried chicken and kool-aid.

I’m BI so I MUST think every girl I see is hot.

I’m SINGLE so I MUST be ugly.

I’m a GIRL who actually EATS LUNCH, so I MUST be fat.
I eat my lunch and guess what happens? People tell me all the time,” Zhang Yang, eat more. You are so skinny.” Haizzz…

I’m MIXED so I must be SEXY.

I listen to MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, so I MUST be a scene kid.

I come from a JC so I MUST be an intellectual snob.

I come from the Normal Academic or Technical Stream/a Polytechnic/Millennia Institute/the ITE so I MUST be stupid.
I am studying in a polytechnic now and I don’t think I am stupid. Well, at least not stupid enough to believe any of these stereotypes that people put on me! If you do that, then you are REALLY stupid.

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Music and Lyrics

Just watched the movie “Music and Lyrics”. It is a sweet romantic movie. Although the plot is a bit predictable, but it is still not a bad choice for some comedy mixed with a bit of music. “Way Back Into Love” is one of the soundtracks and I absolutely love it. Here is the demo version by Drew Barrymore and Hugh Grant.Hope you enjoy it!

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Questions from Eudora

Okay, so here are the five questions that Eudora gave me:

1) What’s your favourite food of all time? Oh my. This is a tough one. The list is endless. If I really have to name one, it will have to be cheese. I don’t know why too. When I was young, my family in China was not very well-off (in fact the whole of China is not doing that great) so something like cheese is a luxury. After haing eaten once (it comes in a packet form, roundish), I fell in love with it.
2) Do you believe in love at first sight (why)? Yes. I believe that when you meet that someone special, your heart will tell you. That person should be able to touch and love you in a way that others can’t.
3) If you could move to anywhere in the world, where would it be? Japan. I’ve always loved Japan. There use to be a period when I was younger when I was crazy over Japan. Everything was Japanese for me. The craze is over, but I still like that country.
4) Animal which disgusts you the most? By animal, does it also mean reptiles? If it does, then it is snake. It is so cold and slimy. I know people say that it’s not like that, but I still don’t believe and I will not go anywhere near one over my dead body.
5) One song that means a hell lot to you, whether it makes you cry or lifts you up.
I guess it is Endless Love by Jackie Chan and Kim Hee-Seon (the theme song for the movie The Myth). It is our song (by “our”, I’m sure you know who I am talking about, don’t you?) because he keeps saying it is a miracle that he found me. Now it has become to painful for me to listen to this song.

Drop me a note in the comments if you want the five questions.

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Shopping and Movies

Hmm…I had a really lovely weekend last week.On Saturday, I got out of the house at about 12.15pm to rush to Clementi MRT station to meet up with my friends of my primary 6 class because we are going to our teacher’s house for a gathering. I was there at 12.35pm when we are actually supposed to meet at 12.30pm. I thought they had left as I did not see anyone there, at least no one that I know of. I called my friend and she told me that the gathering was cancelled as our teacher could not make it today. Having nothing to do, I went to Vivo City where I was supposed to meet my polytecnic classmates for dinner at 4.30pm. Since I still had like two hour plus, I decided to catch a movie. I watched “Love and Lyrics”. It is not too bad. It’s one of those I-know-what-is-going-to-happen-in-the-end movies. There is one song called “Way Back To Love” which I really like a lot, but I can’t seem to find where to download it. Then I met up with my polytechnic classmates and our teacher who brought along her husband and kids. We had dinner at Secret Receipe, which is my first time there. I had Irish Lamb Stew. No wonder it is award-winning. It is absolutely DELICIOUS. We crapped at the deck area, whatever it is suppose to be called. Then each of us subsequently left, leaving Aaron to babysit my teacher’s son. Hehe. I went with Jeanette to shop for a present for one of her friend’s birthday, but in the end she did not buy anything for him. Then I went home.

On Sunday, I met Grace at Orchard MRT station at 2pm. We went over to Shaw to buy the tickets for the 4.10pm show for the movie “300” and had some lunch there. Then we shopped a bit at Isetan before going over to Wisma Atria. Shopping with Grace is fun. She loves shopping and she is so enthusiastic about it. She drags me around and I am glad for there to be someone to give me some direction. I am not a person who like shopping a lot. I only shop when I have something I have in mind that I want to buy. If not, left by myself with no target in mind, I will just walk around aimlessly and get really bored very fast. Yeah, I know I am weird, but what to do? The movie is really very nice, maybe just a bit too depressing. After the movie, we went back to Wisma Atria and then we went to Far East Plaza. By the time we went to Far East Plaza, both of us were already too tired to feel like shopping anymore. So we just took a fast look around and went home. Also, Far East Plaza holds too much memories for me.

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A Beautiful Love Story

Yeah! Attachment is finally over and the holidays are here. Right, this is more of a reminder of what I have to do duting this holiday than anything else:

  • Learn driving

  • Catch up with the essays

  • Revise what I have learnt in year 1 and 2

Anyway, I found this really sweet story…

An amazing true love

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home…. Suddenly he asked the waiter. “Would you please give me some salt? I’d like to put it in my coffee.” Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? He replied: “When I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there”. While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That’s his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life… And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffeee, as she knew that’s the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: “My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you—the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything. Now that I’m dying, I am afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don’t like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again”. Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her: What’s the taste of salty coffee? “It’s sweet.” she replied.

That was so sweet, wasn’t it? It has a little paragraph which I totally agree with:

Love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but to understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but to HOLD ON !!!! Don’t ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot; who calls you back when you hang up on him; who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead; who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats; who holds your hand in front of his friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, “..that’s her.”

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All About Me

I saw this on Eudora’s blog, I thought it looked fun, so I did it.
[My name is]: zhang yang.
[In the morning I am]: half-awake.
[All I need is]: to find my place in this chaotic world.
[I’m afraid of]: a lot of things. the dark. ghosts. spiders. cockroaches. snakes. and the list goes on…
[I dream about]: being with the one I love and building a loving family.

[colour]: pink. I started loving this colour since primary school when I first learnt that pink represents good health (“the pink of health”). it is a sweet colour.
[number]: 2. I seem to have a strong connection to this number. my birthday is 22/02. and I like things to be in pairs. it feels whole that way.
[subject]: chinese. well, it is the only subject I can actually score. but I do love this language dearly. it is my mother tongue after all.
[clothing brand]: I don’t go for brands. I will buy whatever looks good on me and does not cost a bomb. right now my favourite shopping place is This Fashion.
[shoe brand]: like I said, I don’t go for brands. I wear whatever looks great on me and is inexpensive. Charles and Keith does have some pretty decent shoes though. MAD and DMK too.
[sport to play]: not really that much of a sports person. badminton, I guess.
[drink]: did not really have much of the chance to yet. but I realised I can actually take alcohol. really want to try one of these days.
[animal dogs. one of the must-haves in my future home will be a Golden Retriever or any dog for that matter.
[holiday]: Valentine’s Day, I guess. I’m not really a festive kinda person. I would rather spend that special day with that special someone lying in a park with a few good books, simply enjoying each other’s company. all the crowds makes me really tired.
[line from a movie]: I don’t remember quotes from movies. I am more of a storyline person.
[band]: don’t really know of any. sorry for my ignorance. does S Club 7 count? I know they are disbanded but I really like them.

[makes you laugh the most]: Jing Yang. you are the best.
[makes you smile]: Jing Yang and him (you know that I am referring to you, right?)
[gives you a funny feeling when you see them]: him (I miss you dearly. do you miss me?)
[has a crush on you]: I have a feeling that there are quite a few of them, but I can’t be sure.
[easiest to talk to]: Jing Yang. she knows me inside-out.
[sit on the internet all day waiting for someone special to i.m. you?]: not really.
[save AOL/AIM conversations]: definitely not me. It’s a waste of space.
[wish you were a member of the opposite sex]: sometimes I really wonder if I was meant to be a male, but somewhere in the process of creating me, something went wrong and I became a female.
[cry because of someone saying something to you]: once or twice. I am generally a thick-skinned person.

Have you ever…
[fallen for your best friend]: never. I would never do that.
[been rejected]: never. or at least not yet.
[rejected someone]: quite a few times. I just hope that they got over it and moved on with their lives or else I would feel guilty for the rest of my life.
[used someone]: never. it never even crossed my mind.
[been cheated on]: no. my boyfriends are all very faithful to me.
[done something you regret]: lost count long time ago. I am forever doing things which I will regret later.

Who was the last person…
[you talked to on the phone]: can’t really remember. I think it was my Mom. she forgot that I was working morning shift yesterday and went to KKH to wait for me at 9pm.
[hugged]: him. he is the only person I hug and whom I love hugging.
[you instant messaged]: really can’t remember. I have short-term memory.
[you laughed with]: I don’t remember when was the last time I laughed with my heart.

Do you / are you…
[smoke cigarettes]: no. and I will never do that. I can’t stand cigarrettes. I start coughing the moment I smell cigarette smoke. my future husband must not smoke. and my boyfriend too.
[obsessive]: whatever I am into at the moment. my Mom says I tend to sink into something and lose my way in it. she has a point there, I must say. it’s is just like my eating habit. once I start liking something, I will eat it for every meal until I get so sick and tired of it that I never want to touch it again, before I will move onto something else.
[could you live without the computer]: probably yes. I have before and I can now. but I will be greatly inconvenienced.
[how many peeps are on your buddylist]: never really counted. about 100. but I usually talk to only about 10 of them.
[what’s your favorite food]: this is my favourite topic. I have a whole list. ice-cream. fried chicken wings. cheesecake. and the list is never-ending…
[fruit]: mango, I guess. I am not a fussy eater. I will eat everything edible and sweet.
[drink alcohol]: don’t really drink.
[like watching sunrises or sunset]: oh, I love sunrise and sunsets. he promised that he would watch sunrise and sunset with me on my birthday this year, but we didn’t get to do it. I don’t know if we will ever get to do it.
[trust others way too easily]: yes. everyone tells me that. what to do? I am just so innocent at heart…ok, don’t puke.

[of times you have had your heart broken]: once? it’s not really heart-broken. just sad. he didn’t cheat on me or anything, but we did not work out. I am still waiting for him.
[of hearts you have broken]: quite a few. I just hope it’s not too deep.
[of continents I have lived in]: two.
[of drugs taken illegally]: never.
[of tight friends]: about 7. lucky me.
[of cds that I own]: 13 or so in my own collection.
[of books]: don’t realy know. probably about 40 to 50?
[of scars on my body]: countless. my parents once joked with me that they can find the Singapore map on my legs.
[of things in my past that I regret]: don’t even remember the one thing that I did that I did not regret.

Pick one…
[marry perfect friend or perfect lover]: perfect lover
[cats or dogs]: defnitely dog.
[1 or 2 pillows]: 1. or best no pillow. I sleep the best without pillow. I know I am wierd.
[with or without ice cubes]: with.
[top or bottom]: top.
[winter / spring / summer / fall]: spring. I love the slightly chilly feel in the air. and the knowledge that another great year is ahead.
[night or day]: night. not really a morning person. and I love the coolness in the night.
[gloves or mittens]: doesn’t matter as long as they keep me warm.
[dressed or undressed]: never thought about that. I will let you know when I know the answer.
[bunk or water bed]: bunk.
[MTV or VHI]: MTV.
[ocean or pool]: pool. the ocean terrifies me.
[showers or baths]: showers. baths are such a waste of water. and time too.
[love or lust]: love. definitely. without a doubt.
[silver or gold]: silver. gold is a little oldish for my taste.
[diamonds or pearls]: actually I like neither. pearls are too old-fashioned and diamonds are too expensive. wearing one is like an invitation of for the thief to rob you. but if I really have to choose one, it will be diamond.

If you could…
[move anywhere]: Japan. I used to be totaly in love with Japan. Korea sounds good too. or back to China. ah, Shanghai. yes. Shanghai it is.
[meet one famous person]: Micheal Jordan. To thank him for transforming the life of someone who matters a lot to me.
[live with one person the rest of your life]: you know who you are.
[name one thing you love]: getting to know him. and loving him. I am thankful for the chance to love him even if it never works put for the two of us.
[name one thing that embarrasses you]: that one time when I was asked by my classmates in secondary school to collect some papers from my form teacher with everyone looking at me as if saying,” I know there is something between you and him”. that was really embarrassing. my whole fact turned bright red.

[do you like school]: not very much.
[do you like to talk on the telephone]: depends on who I am talking to. I can talk to him for hours. and with Jing Yang too.
[do you like to dance]: don’t really know how to. would really like to learn.
[do you sing in the shower]: no. I find it creepy.
[do you think cheerleading is a sport]: yes. it is.
[what’s on your ceiling]: lightbulb
[what’s the hardest thing about growing up]: meeting someone you love and can’t be with him.

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